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Want to move out of state

From: ANXIOUS MOM
Date: 26 Feb 2005
Time: 07:53:27
Remote Name: 69.139.192.242

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MYSELF, MY HUSBAND, OUR DAUGHTER, AND MY DAUGHTER FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP WOULD LIKE TO MOVE OUT OF STATE. MY DAUGHTER WHO IS INVOLVED IN A CUSTODY CASE IS 9 YEARS OLD. SHE WANTS TO MOVE, SHE HAS NO WORRIES AT ALL, AND IS IN NO WAY PRESSURED TO SAY YES TO MOVE. MY CONCERN IS WHETHER OR NOT THERE IS ANY LAW THAT WILL ALLOW US TO ACTUALLY GO. HER FATHER HAS JOINT CUSTODY, ALTHOUGH HE JUST STARTED SEEING HER NOW AFTER 2 YEARS OF NOT SEEING HER AT ALL...PARTLY MY DAUGHTER'S FAULT, AND PARTLY HIS FAULT. I DID NOT SUPPORT/NOT SUPPORT THEIR DECISIONS. THEY CURRENTLY DO NOT HAVE A "NORMAL" VISITATION THAT WOULD BE ALTERED BY US MOVING. I WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO HIM FIRST TO SEE IF HE WOULD AGREE TO SOMETHING OUTSIDE OF COURT. I AM MORE THAN WILLING TO PAY TO SEND HER HOME FOR THE SUMMER AND CHRISTMAS...AS WELL AS OTHER THINGS. ONE OTHER THING I AM NOT SURE ABOUT IS YEARS AGO, MY EX'S MOTHER TOOK ME TO COURT FOR GRANDPARENT'S RIGHTS, AND PUT HER SON'S NAME ON THE PAPERWORK. HE DID NOT SHOW TO COURT SINCE HE HAD A WARRANT OUT FOR HIS ARREST FOR NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT, AND HE WAS LIVING (WITHOUT OUR PERMISSION) IN TENNESSEE FOR 1 YEAR TO AVADE CHILD SUPPORT. DURING THIS TIME, HE DID NOT CONTACT MY DAUGHTER AT ALL. ALTHOUGH HE DIDN'T SHOW TO COURT FOR THESE REASONS, HIS MOTHER WON GRANDPARENT'S RIGHTS, AND GOT VISITATION. THIS CONTINUED ONLY FOR A SHORT WHILE UNTIL SHE LOST HER LICENSE FOR DRINKING AND DRIVING. SHE THEN STARTED TO NOT CALL/OR HAVE A RIDE TO PICK UP MY DAUGHTER. MY DAUGHTER DOES NOT WANT TO SEE HER OR SPEND TIME WITH HER SINCE SHE IS AN ALCOHOLIC, AND WAS FORCED BY THE COURT TO WITNESS HER IN THIS DRUNKEN STATE, WEEKEND AFTER WEEKEND. NEEDLESS TO SAY, MY DAUGHTER HAS NOT SEEN HER ALCOHOLIC GRANDMOTHER FOR 2 YEARS NOW. SHE DOES NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. SINCE THE COURT ORDER WAS NEVER MODIFIED TO HAVE THE GRANDPARENT'S RIGHTS REMOVED, AM I GOING TO NEED HER PERMISSION TO MOVE ALSO? I AM EXTREMELY LAW-ABIDING, AND DO NOT WANT TO DO ANYTHING ILLEGAL. I DON'T WANT TO FIGHT WITH ANYONE, I JUST WANT TO RELOCATE. I HOPE SOMEONE CAN PROVIDE ME WITH SOME TYPE OF INFORMATION REGARDING THIS SITUATION.

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Last changed: February 26, 2005